Me and Rachel-Luv this pic [Pic Destroyed by some doink doing 'WTH-What the Hell' action-Courtesy of Marjuki]
On the way back, there were talks on death and funeral and this made me realise, that it isn't ridiculous to think about all this stuff now because life is unpredictable and there is no telling what might happen and when it might happen.Then, I also came across a beautiful article........It really makes you think that no matter who and whatever comes into your life, the ones who were there for you from the time of your birth and would be with you till the time of you death are not colleagues, relatives, teachers or even friends-They are our FAMILY.They are the ones who always help us in every types of trouble. They are the ones who are genuine and filled with love and care and yet, we take them for granted-talking to our parents only when we need $$, talking to our siblings only hen we need favours...and yet, we can chit chat and hang out the whole day long with our friends-IRONY isn't it-that the ones whom we should treasure, we cast them aside and we treasure those who come and would one day just leave your life as gems..........
FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company that we are working for can easily replace us in a matter of days.
Even friends would get over you and move on with their lives-how long do you think they would keep remembering and mourning for you?
But the family we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.
So, if we were to think about it, pouring overselves more into work than into our own family is an unwise investment, the same as spending more time with friends than dear and loved ones-Don't you think?
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company that we are working for can easily replace us in a matter of days.
Even friends would get over you and move on with their lives-how long do you think they would keep remembering and mourning for you?
But the family we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.
So, if we were to think about it, pouring overselves more into work than into our own family is an unwise investment, the same as spending more time with friends than dear and loved ones-Don't you think?
Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU
2 comments:
Babe i totally agree with bt i do believe certain frenz will b dere too.Live life w/o expectations.As for my uncle, my dad lost in touch with him for yrs n only see them during occasions.One reason is location(malaysia)...but whn the funeral took place, my parents hav 2 b dere to carry out the ritual rights...now i feel why my dad neve spend enuf time wif him n we r missin him alot.A lesson learnt, life is unpredictable...Make ppl in ur life happy till u die, whn u lve the world nothing is brought back only tears n memories left behind.Treat human beings the same if u think u cant get along stay away...Juz b nice, heart is weak:(
Yea....some frenz would be there but we have no idea who to count on-haha as usual....don't expect anything from anyone.......yea thats true...no matter how we are towards each other, in the end, family has to do the rituals for one another and it is at this kind of things that we realise our mistakes and start regretting when this should be the time that we should let go......wadever is written, would take its course in the due time.....Life is all pre destined..
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